Makeup. For many women, wearing makeup is a fashion must that has been promoted, encouraged, accepted, and often, even required by our society and culture. I understand that both genders may wear makeup, and that makeup may also be worn by children and youth, however I would like to address the issue of makeup worn by women.
This evening, I went to a local department store and purchased a tube of facial cleanser that works well on my skin, cleaning it, but not drying it out. I also bought a tube of black mascara. Occasionally, I will also purchase a bottle of foundation, in order to apply it under my eyes and to cover blemishes. And, I will also occasionally buy lipstick or lip gloss.
I like to purchase Clinique products because they are hypoallergenic, however they are also very expensive. I can get away with buying a cheaper foundation from WalMart, but for things like lipsticks and mascara, I have to get hypoallergenic products, otherwise they feel like they are burning my eyes and mouth once applied. The same is true about eye shadow and eye liner; I do not wear these products at all for the same reasons.
So, throughout my life, I have spent a fair amount of money on makeup and “beauty” products. However, I am one who believes that true beauty is within. To me, beauty is only skin deep. A woman can be made up to appear gorgeous, wearing all sorts of makeup, but is that true beauty? No, not to me. When women make themselves up with tons of makeup, they are buying into societal and cultural pressure that states that females must wear makeup in order to be beautiful, sexy, youthful, attractive, and/or desirable.
While some people may think that women who wear alot of makeup are beautiful, to me, they often look more like clowns or prostitutes. Women who wear too much makeup bring themselves down. Wearing too much makeup also sends the wrong message to younger generations, causing them to believe that they have to wear makeup in order to be beautiful. That is the wrong message to convey. Those who appreciate and understand true beauty can live without makeup and do not demand that women wear it.
The photo of the woman that I have included at the beginning of my post is most similar to my personal makeup philosophy – less is more, with a “natural” look. Now, I also understand that the woman in the photo is wearing makeup, however she has been made up to appear as though she is not wearing any makeup. My style is to look similar, with or without lip color. I can say that, for the past number of years now, however, that less is really more for me – not just for the way that I look, but also to save money by not purchasing makeup.
Really, I have never been one of those types of people who have to run out and buy the latest craze in makeup. I can have it, or I can go without. In fact, much of the time, I feel better going without because then I don’t feel guilty about having spent more money than I desired to on makeup.
Additionally, because I believe that true beauty is within, I often observe women in society who wear much makeup, but who appear to be insecure, unhappy, or lacking in confidence in themselves. Do they wear makeup in an effort to bolster their self-confidence and/or perceived happiness? Or, are they trying to cover up their insecurities, lack of confidence, and/or perceived flaws with it?
As for flaws, no one is perfect either. I, myself, have a couple of prominent scars on my face, though I have learned to live with them and do not cover them with any makeup. They are what they are, and I believe that people will like and accept me whether I cover them with makeup or not.
Regarding the photo of the woman, above, that reflects skin that has different tones, the gist of the article from which I retrieved the image basically stated that the woman looked better with makeup. What I believe is that, in order to try to convince readers that the woman looks better with makeup, those who edited the photo used Photoshop to lighten her skin tone, making her appear washed out. These types of images, along with the articles that are associated with them, are definitely misleading and are not providing correct information.
Perhaps if I was a model, I might think differently, however I do try to be a role model, reflecting that I am not one to get overly caught up in societal pressures, expectations, and demands of women about wearing makeup. Truly, the most “beautiful” woman in the world may be one who wears no makeup at all. It is all a matter of perspective and philosophy, and to each, their own.
So what are you covering up with your makeup?