Tragedy in Maui

It has been saddening to read the news, see the pictures, watch videos, and hear interviews of the tragic devastation that the wildfires took in Maui last week. My heart goes out to everyone who has been affected. It is sad to lose loved ones, no matter what the cause. It is even more sad when loved ones are lost in situations where precipitating events could have been prevented or eliminated. I would like to write something about this tragedy that occurred in Hawaii, but it is difficult to know what to say and still be sensitive about it. I am hesitant to say too much so as not to offend anyone. I know this is a difficult time for many.

Hawaii is a place on my bucket list for my son and I to travel to. I want to see, enjoy, and experience the beauty, people, environment, and culture of Hawaii. My mom and a friend visited Hawaii decades ago and raved about its beauty, as well as its expense. Regardless of the expense, I also want to experience it; you only live once.

But, in thinking about this tragedy, it also brought to mind another trip that my son and I took. Last year, we visited Alaska for the first time – and probably the only time in my life. Alaska is absolutely beautiful, but it is also remote. People who live in Alaska truly must understand that they are living in an area of mostly wilderness that is very remote and is also separated from the rest of our country.

So, when I began to know of the wildfires that were occurring in Maui, it immediately brought to mind Hawaii’s remoteness. Somewhat similar to Alaska – in remote areas – there are relatively few people, few services, and even fewer people to “man” those services. When we visited Alaska last year, my son expressed a love for it, and we had a serious discussion about the realities of Alaska. When you are in the wilderness of Alaska – or in any remote area – you are on your own. And, when you are on your own, it’s great to have your independence, but there is also no one there for you when you need them. That is the harsh reality.

Therefore, safety and wellness are extremely important in any situation. I’m sure we’ve all had those experiences of being ill or injured, and it is no fun not to be in good health and not to be “safe.” My son is an eagle scout and can do lots of “outdoorsy” things that others may find challenging. I’m sure he could survive in a wilderness or remote area for a period of time if needed, but I don’t encourage him – or anyone – to ever put themself at risk doing that.

Thus, it brings Hawaii back to mind. Hawaii is beautiful and amazing, just having viewed it from pictures, videos, and television shows. However, Hawaii is also remote. Again, there are few people. There are few services. And, there are even fewer people to support those services, implement them, and potentially take them seriously when they are needed. A red flag warning was issued and the conditions were ripe for a tragedy, and that is what occurred. Anyone who has ever been out west in our country knows the severe dangers and risks associated with a red flag warning – it is no joke! You must be constantly alert or leave the area entirely in order to be safe.

Certainly, there is always blame to go around in any tragedy. My post is not to point fingers, but to bring attention to the fact that Hawaii is remote. People traveling to or living in Hawaii – or any remote area – are taking a risk – perhaps more of a risk than those living in certain more populated or condensed areas. Living in Hawaii is not like living in Atlanta, Manhattan, Denver, or other city where services and support are at your doorstep. Living in Hawaii is not even similar to living in a rural area in the contiguous 48 states of our country where people may have to drive an hour or two to receive services and support. Multiple hours and even days are required to provide enhanced services and support to remote locations such as Hawaii.

In Hawaii, therefore, needed services and support are simply not as available, nor provided at the same level as what people generally experience in the contiguous 48 states. I realized that during my vacation in Alaska last year due to it being so remote and leaving one with the feeling that “you are on your own, so be extra careful!” When you’re driving on a remote road in an unfamiliar vehicle or hiking in the wilderness of bear country without cell phone reception, you must take ALL precautions necessary or be ready to face the natural consequences. Therefore, people who live in distant, remote areas that are separated from our nation or other areas of “civilization” must understand the risks they take in doing so. This tragedy in Hawaii has been a reflection of that.

Again, my heart goes out to all affected by this tragedy. I wish it had never happened. However, I also hope it is a wake-up call to those who are still there. I know Hawaii is home for many people, and I know what it is like to love your home. However, more support is obviously needed in remote areas. What happened in Hawaii is bad enough, but could have been worse. Grieve, but learn from it. Make whatever changes possible to keep yourselves safe, healthy, and well in this beautiful, distant, most remote state of our country. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Walking in the Park with a Friend

People Walking in a Park, Retrieved on August 10, 2023 from https://www.fayetteville-ar.gov/3542/Walking-and-Hiking-Trails

I am so excited that I just had to post about walking in Alexander Park in Lawrenceville, Georgia on today’s beautiful evening (August 10) with my new friend! I mentioned about this lady in a prior post – she is the professor that I met, recently, at the 5K event hosted by the Gwinnett Chamber of Commerce. I must say it was wonderful to get out and enjoy the outdoors while exercising with my friend. We had a lot to talk about, and she shared much interesting information about her work. It was truly refreshing to talk with and relate with someone on a similar level, particularly with us both being educators and having an interest and background in writing. We walked about three miles and had endless things to discuss.

Most of my current work is from home, so that prevents me from getting out much. As a person who is extremely outgoing, needs a lot of stimulation, and has not been in a committed relationship for many years, it definitely gets lonely being at home. It has been great to get out and be involved in some community-related activities in my county. I’m a person who likes to get together and talk with others, in-person, and I have had to seek out activities within my interest areas and limited availability to do that. My friend and I also agreed that, unfortunately, many activities offered out there revolve around alcohol, and neither of us are into that. So, sometimes, that leaves even more limited opportunities for people to get together.

The one thing that I can continually reaffirm is that it is not only difficult to “meet” people, but to also establish and maintain friendships with people. It can be a challenge to get close to others, especially in this world filled with gadgets galore and technology overload. I find this more and more as I go through life and get older, and I also hear others say the same thing. So, for me, it is that much more important to maintain positive friendships and relationships with people who have similar philosophies and interests.

I am looking forward to getting out and going on more walks with my friend! We have already established a regular day each week to get together to do so, and are planning on adding additional days with more people. I am thankful that my friend has understanding and thoughtfulness for me due to my work from home responsibilities and often being unable to get out. I am also grateful to God for helping open up my world to more activities and like-minded people; I have definitely been praying for that, a lot!

Dashing the 5K with Gwinnett Chamber Today!

Me at the Gwinnett Chamber of Commerce Button Down Dash 5K, Suwanee, Georgia, August 5, 2023

What a change of pace it was to run in the Button Down Dash 5K with the Gwinnett Chamber of Commerce in Suwanee, Georgia today! I have not officially run a 5K in nearly 40 years since my early teens. When I saw that the Gwinnett Chamber was hosting a 5K, I decided that it might be fun to get out and do something different for a change – and I’m so happy that I did!

View at the Starting Line of the Race, Suwanee, Georgia, August 5, 2023

Today, at the Button Down Dash 5K, I went to participate, meet people, and have some fun. It was so refreshing to get out of the house, drive out to Suwanee early in the morning on Saturday with no traffic (!), and take part in this race. Of course, it was so humid that I was already hot and sweaty even before the race began, but that is to be expected with a run in the middle of summer in Georgia! I am not a true runner, but instead, more of a jogger/walker. In my younger days, I would do a sprint, hurdle, or race walk event (as well as my usual field events), but I was never a distance runner, per se. Certainly, I could run distance, but not fast.

Folks at the GGC Table at the Event, Suwanee, Georgia, August 5, 2023

I am not a person who generally allows myself to experience much stress, but there have been some huge changes in one of my work roles recently that have greatly increased my stress level, causing me to begin restructuring my mental approach to my work. I love my work, but there are some things associated with one of my roles that are now very different, and therefore, challenging to deal with. Therefore, this was another reason that it was so great to get out and run today – it was a big stress reliever and gave me some mental uplift.

Some Vendors at the 5K, Suwanee, Georgia, August 5, 2023

Along the race route, I found that one particular lady and I were about the same pace. In the last one-third or so of the course, I caught up with her and we struck up a great conversation for the remainder of the distance. I truly needed that! She is a professor at Georgia Gwinnett College, and that is where my son goes to school. It was nice to relate with someone on a similar intellectual level. We exchanged contact information and are planning to go walking together with a small group of ladies on occasion. I am not looking for any special favors, but just some camaraderie and connection. Additionally, I would also guess that the contingent of runners representing the college was probably the largest corporate group at the event today.

Sponsors of the Event, Suwanee, Georgia, August 5, 2023

Staying for the Awards Ceremony, I enjoyed watching the top three runners in each age and gender category receive their medals. Nick Masino, the Chamber’s President and Chief Executive Officer, recognized a young boy who was one of the medal winners, and asked him to tell a joke to the audience. It was cute because he did not immediately know a joke to share, but was called up again later to share one.

Gwinnett Chamber President/CEO Issuing Awards, Suwanee, Georgia, August 5, 2023

Jokes can be uplifting and fun, so that also got me thinking of one that my son shared with me. With my boldness, I got up and let Masino know I had a joke to tell, as well. So, a few minutes later, I had my opportunity to share a teacher joke and put in a plug for GGC!

Me with Gwinnett Stripers’ Mascot, “Chopper,” Suwanee, Georgia, August 5, 2023

I am going to try to make running (jogging/walking) in the Button Down Dash 5K an annual tradition. Even though I had to awaken at 5:30 AM on my day off to get to a race early in the morning in the heat and humidity of summer, it was fun, enjoyable, and extremely worthwhile for me for many reasons. I ended up placing in the last one-fourth of the competition of more than 400 runners, but I was never in it to win it – only to participate, meet people, and have some fun. That’s what I did and I’m so happy that I went!

Note: All of the views in this post are my own, and are not reflective of any other individual or business.